word choice

Word choice is very important especially when fighting with someone. Blaming, calling names, degrading the other person may bring yourself up in the moment and/or may feel very innocent because “you were just mad”. When in reality these words were spoken into the universe. They were used against someone you love, caught up in their late night thoughts, wondering if this is how they truly come off or if it was just the rage of the moment. There without conscious thought remains a new version of this person, one constructed from your hate and your anger, a version of this person that does not exist but is merely a physical representation of your own emotional shadow. The way you perceive others begins with how you chose to perceive them. 

Always think twice before you write something in for the dialogue.